“Everyone wants to believe that they are hearing the truth, and if you’re so in love with the person you’re lying to, it’s even harder,” says Traci Brown body language expert. “Other things people do are when their lips disappear, fall on their teeth or cover their mouths,” said Brown. “Sometimes people are asked a very incriminating question, and they smile very, very loudly and shake their heads,” said Brown. You’ll see that there are delays, and there you’ll see more disappointment, because “if we fill in these gaps, we’ll have cognitive overload,” says Brown. No one can think that your husband is not telling the truth, but if you are divorcing or your marriage is in trouble, the chances increase that your husband is not being completely honest and you need to know how to tell your husband that he or she is lying to you. “Often only people know they have a leg when they discover the truth that they are admitting many things,” Brown said. “You can put them in a deep lie and use that information when you need it, but don’t say you know they’re lying,” says Brown. “Men and women often know when they are lying to each other because they know each other so well,” Brown said. Just to make it a little harder, Brown says that every person will be a little different and that’s why you need a baseline for the person you suspect is lying to. E-mail is difficult for any communication and it is easy to misinterpret written words, because what is missing is all that has to do with personal communication – intonation, tone, rhythm, visual suggestions, Phone calls for this purpose are better than e-mails, but if you really want to know if someone is lying, you have to do it yourself. “People will hide before they lie,” says Brown. “That’s why we have a baseline and then we look for change,” says Brown. “They have no guilt, no pityno Brown suggests taking a copy of his book How To Detect Lies, Fraud and Identity Theft and leaving it on the counter. “There’s no reason to laugh at a very incriminating question, and that’s because they think they can get away with it and have fun. A single hot spot isn’t enough to make sure someone’s lying, so Brown is looking for three hot spots and she has some characters she’s looking for.